The journey of a 1000 miles begins with a single step

No one is a Buddhist

Ram Dass has shared a story of a young woman who told him, “My family hates when I’m a Buddhist but loves when I’m a Buddha.” In other words, its not what religion we identify ourselves with that matters, but how we think, feel and keep our hearts open with others that matters most.

In my experience, it’s often beneficial to not identify too strongly with any group or “ism”… When I identify myself as a Buddhist then a non-Buddhist becomes “the other” – and there’s an immediate wall of separation- us/them, me/you.

More important than identification with a religion is to live the teachings― to focus on being peaceful, loving, joyful, generous, grateful, mindful and kind. To “be the change,” as Gandhi put it, transcending the conceptual categories and divisions in our heads.

Simplifying our sense of identity, being with people fully, sometimes silently (knowing in our hearts that we are all part of one unified reality) is transformative. Giving everyone you meet your undivided love and attention― as small children often do― is one of the greatest gifts we can share with ourselves and the world (which were never really separate in the first place).

By focusing on the interdependence, unity and connectedness that was always there from the beginning, the “problem” of self/other is not so much solved, as dissolved and transcended.

~Christopher Chase
Tao & Zen

Being a Buddha: Transcending the Sense of Self/Other https://creativesystemsthinking.wordpress.com/2014/08/13/being-a-buddha-transcending-the-idea-of-selfother/

 Source: (17) Tao & Zen
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6 responses

  1. Wonderful

    August 31, 2016 at 1:18 pm

    • Lou

      Cool, you get it too.

      August 31, 2016 at 7:05 pm

      • Thank you so much for sharing. Perhaps I should share it as well?

        August 31, 2016 at 7:10 pm

        • Lou

          Of course, feel free to spread the joy!

          August 31, 2016 at 7:26 pm

        • Lou

          As much as you want.

          August 31, 2016 at 7:26 pm

  2. Pingback: No one is a Buddhist  via – Zen Flash | GoodnightNina.

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